Video: How to Gain Psychological Advantage in Sales
Check out this video of a recent online class I did for SaleseSchool
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Check out this video of a recent online class I did for SaleseSchool
Lesson 3 – Move on
Don’t mourn the loss of a deal. Let go and move on.
Then look to find a hidden opportunity. Here a scenario that may be unpleasantly familiar, a big deal slips away and the sales person goes into mourning the loss. It’s on their mind all the time. They think about what a great opportunity that could have been, and even how they would have spent that money. Meanwhile, they lose focus and operate with a clouded mind, as a result lose more deals. Then having lost all confidence, they go into a downward spiral and start … Continue Reading
Lesson 2 – The Law of Requisite Variety
As it pertains to Sales: The one with the most behavior flexibility has the most influence. I had a chance to control my equation by changing my behavior, but I chose to be at its mercy by staying on the train.
This used to happen to me in sales as well and I see others also make this mistake on a regular basis. You are giving a sales presentation or a pitch and it’s clearly not going well. You realize this and continue doing what you are doing anyway, because it feels uncomfortable to … Continue Reading
Sales lessons learned through screwing up…
I did it, so you don’t have to.
I open my eyes, it is 4:58am and my alarm should have rang over an hour ago. Today is my second day at my new job and I am scheduled to accompany my CEO on his trip to Boston. Our train is leaving at 6:20am. I have been excited about this trip since I first found out about it last week and it’s a BIG deal to me – a great opportunity to both learn a lot … Continue Reading
This is great research and article on why startups fail. I’m going to go one step further and say that a lot of these are the main reasons most companies fail, regardless of what stage of their business life they are in.

When you move from ‘vacuum salesman’ to trusted advisor you seal more deals.
Every day, I hear from someone who calls themselves a “software salesman” or an “insurance saleswoman,” and I wonder why they pigeonhole themselves this way.
And then it strikes me: They are product peddlers as opposed to salespeople.
What do I mean by this? Well, a gifted salesperson can sell anything to anyone. Not because they have great products but instead because they are supremely confident about themselves and know they can charm and intrigue virtually everyone they come in contact with.